Children are born 梦想ers. As a father of two young girls, I see it every day. They let their imaginations take them to wild places:
爸爸,我长大后想当恐龙!
我们可以去月球吗?
I still remember my childhood 梦. When I was just 5, my parents took me to see Superman. After that, I wanted to do nothing but fly. 我的 mother made me a red cape which I wore around the house. I also 梦想ed of visiting the places I read about in books and saw 上 National Geographic. I 梦想t of being an astronaut and flying F16 fighter jets.
As I grew older, the 梦 evolved and became more rational. By the age of 12 or so, I thought it would be 大 to be a commercial airline pilot. As a teen, I accepted that my lack of 好 vision stifled all 梦 of flying. I let them go.
然后你长大
Real life has a funny way of squashing 梦. You go to school, develop a skill, get a job (not flying anything), find a mate and possibly have children. You buy a house in the suburbs and a couple cars. At work, you try to get ahead of other humans for 8 to 10 hours every day. You take a week off for vacation a couple times per year. Maybe you work harder than your co-workers, become a vice-president, buy a big house and a fast car. After 40 years, you move to a warm place to live out the rest of your days. Your body and mind will be past their prime, but hopefully in 好 enough condition so that you may enjoy your remaining time.
But what became of those 梦? The answer is simple: You let them go when you became an adult. The responsibilities and pressures of life pushed your 梦 aside.
Dare to 梦想
I’我们为金融独立制定了短期课程。我努力工作,但把钱花在了买东西上。一世’ve made errors (“您好4000平方英尺的家!”), but I’m现在站稳脚跟。一世’不到两年就可以免费使用,感觉很好。
我的 梦 are coming back. Of course, they aren’和我小时候的一样’使其不那么值得。在接下来的几年中,我和我的家人将前往美国东北部,并花费数月的时间探索缅因州的海岸,佛蒙特州的树林和华盛顿特区。再过一年,我们’ll spend the same amount of time in the Pacific Northwest. I 梦想 of reading and writing. I 梦想 of teaching my children to code.
财务独立可以减轻生活的压力和压力。我不再担心钱了。我不再对失去工作感到恶梦。我不再关心邻居是否对我少一些,因为我的汽车是2003年生产的。我’m a better person.
Best of all, I can 梦想 上 ce again.
Do you still remember the 梦 you had as a child?
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I still 梦想, but like you they have evolved over the years. 我的 super hero 梦 have long past, I’m looking towards our future now. I love listening to my children share their unfiltered hopes and 梦 too.
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孩子是最好的!从他们嘴里出来的东西经常使我想起我有多疲倦和有多远’我已经偏离了我真正想成为的人。
尼斯发布1500年代,芝加哥的好照片。我不会’我不想在那里住很长一段时间,但是在我妻子读研究生时来享受这座城市。你们正在朝着财务自由迈出具体步骤,这太好了!
As for my 梦, sadly they’已经搁置了两年。我妻子会说我们还有其他优先事项,但让’s call it what it is…..我们把视线移开了。生命短暂。几个星期前,一个在工作的家伙在一次员工会议中中风时把这个穴位锤了起来。他的老板对他大吼大叫,他就在那里中风了,然后…..开会中。他’离退休3个月了,幸好没有’不会造成任何永久性损害,但您可以获得多少清除。唐’不要把视线从球上移开!
-布莱恩
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芝加哥很棒!它’自从我还是个孩子以来,情况发生了很大变化。
哇,这是一个邪恶的故事。很高兴中风没有’不会造成永久性损坏。
I definitley still 梦想. Sometimes I still have my childhood 梦 of flying and super strength like superman. But those usually 上 ly come out when I am watching the latest marvel movie.
实际上,如果您有机会,Ted X Education会提供一些很棒的视频,介绍超级力量的真正含义。
http://blog.ted.com/what-if-superpowers-were-real-a-series-of-ted-ed-lessons-explores-the-science-of-flight-super-speed-invisibility-and-more/
But like others most of my 梦 are grounded 通过 reality, at least to me. Some still think I am pretty nuts.
To be honest I think that anyone in our space that dares to live differently has a higher capacity to 梦想. If you can keep the 梦想ing muscle engaged, your minds creativity will be off the charts. There will be no problem you can’t solve.
I would love to sit down and have a chat with Elon Musk to see what his 梦 are.
干杯!
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是的,当我发挥想象力时,我会拿出最好的材料!
I’我敢打赌,马斯克会说些有关火星的事。
多米尼克– One blogger actually had a chance to sit with Elon Musk and ask him about his 梦. Specifically Tesla and SpaceX.
查看 http://waitbutwhy.com
He 梦 of saving humanity from extinction 通过 saving us from fossil fuels and relocating parts of humanity to a second planet as a ‘backup plan’万一地球上发生了什么事。
整个事情太疯狂了,我可以’t even ‘dream’对这个。文章长,但读起来很棒!
I’ve always been 梦想ing. But, like you, my 梦 have changed. I’m pretty sure I’我会回到现场娱乐工作,但是’很难想象再也不会参与音乐了。
昨晚,我听说肯塔基州的这位民谣歌手琼·雪莱。而且我发誓我再次爱上了民间音乐。我知道的下一件事情是,我正在网上搜寻现场表演,视频和我可能尚未听说的东西。
反正我’m looking forward to the day when 我不’不必担心钱或建立事业。然后也许我可以将脚趾浸入那个世界。但是可能直到那个时候。
有时当我听说别人’小时候,我觉得我’m living life in reverse ala Benjamin Button. I was the kid that 梦想ed of being an accountant, then (when I learned what 上 e was), an actuary. Seriously, these were my 梦 at 10 years old.
But Mr PoP helped teach me how to 梦想. And now, it’s 梦 of (literally) sailing off into the sunset someday in the not-too-distant future. As long as we don’t change our minds and chase some other 梦想, we’ll get there. =)
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PoP太太,太棒了!我认为精算师将是一个伟大的职业!如果我上大学之前就知道’我很确定我可能会追求它。
PoP先生是一个明智的人。
C’mon, what’做会计师错了吗?
我实际上是在考虑从事IT职业(也许是编程?),但最终选择了会计。从事很多这类工作,您永远不会真正知道自己的工作’让自己投入其中,因此,如果您最终遇到了自己真正喜欢的事物(或者至少不要’讨厌),那么您确实很幸运。
As exciting as being an accountant is (is he serious?), I have 梦想t of retirement since I first read rich dad poor dad in my late teens. 我不’想不到我曾经想当消防员或超人–也许我真的注定要成为会计师?!
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1500,
疯了,你刚刚发布有关此。上周,又过了一次,我发布了有关我的3次重复噩梦(http://www.retire29.com/is-your-life-up-in-the-air/) and how they are the primary force driving me to early retirement. So, I guess that answers the question: yes, I 梦想, but they’通常是噩梦。
Those adult 梦 you’现在听起来很棒—进入大自然往往会减慢生活速度并在自己的头脑中创造自由。对你好。如果你’re in the DC area, I’在10个问题中,我欠您一杯啤酒。
埃里克
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很有意思!我看了你的噩梦,可以肯定地说。我曾经做过关于被解雇或破产的噩梦。好消息是,当我’ve走近FI。我希望他们也为您而走。
Most adults completely forget about their childhood 梦. They let the day to day grind of life blind them. I’m with you. I’ve got new 梦 from childhood and pursue them relentlessly.
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对了,兄弟!
那’这是一个非常有趣的话题。一世’m 35 and still 梦想 a lot, mostly 好 梦 🙂 I agree, peace of mind during day time is a 大 pillow for night time!
在我的一篇文章中,我谈到了“eating money 梦想” ( http://wp.me/p6wEGK-H ),显然’这是一个非常常见的噩梦:/
这是我喜欢的著名语录,可以用于实现FI:
“There is 上 ly 上 e thing that makes a 梦想 impossible to achieve: the fear of failure.” –炼金术士Paulo Coelho
很棒的报价!
哇,我’ve never 梦想ed of eating money!!
这让我想起了我的侄女。前几天她告诉我,她想成为冰雪奇缘的美人鱼(就像电影《冰雪奇缘》中的力量,也是美人鱼,而不是被困在冰块中的美人鱼)。我小时候想当一名宇航员,然后我想当一名考古学家(实际上更像是古生物学家,我想寻找恐龙骨骼)。我喜欢我选择的职业,因为化学方面有很多奇迹,即使我的工作没有’包含了很多不可思议的部分。梦想是伟大的。梦想大或小很棒。我想当人们不这样做’没有财务上的独立性,他们可能会变得分心,忘记自己的梦想。
这是一份享受事业的绝妙礼物!我同意化学也很棒。我真的很喜欢有机部分。这非常具有挑战性,但是我喜欢学习所有的反应以及真正理解它所需的思考。
椅子配置!芳香族化合物!!
I confess I did stop 梦想ing for myself. I felt my life was for everyone else. Oh the responsibilities.
But now I do 梦想! But I am 梦想ing of just 2 things. 1 year off traveling with the family and developing a location independent business.
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It’s 大 to read something like this, I have been caught 通过 the work hard to advance bug and have been doing less 梦想ing and less thoughts of FI. I always wanted to be a professional athlete, reality hit me in college, but it was a 大 梦想.
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Unfortunately, my 梦 at night have become nightmares. These 梦 tend to bring back past mistakes or worst yet, having to go back to work for a horrible employer at the lowest level job. Fear that we lost everything we saved. 🙁
On a brighter note, our 梦 or 目标 during the waking hours are much more pleasant. We are 上 ly a year away from leaving paid employment for 好 , to begin the next adventurous chapter in our lives. 🙂
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When I was a kid, all I wanted to do was grow up and have a career. Strange, now I have a career and all I 梦想 about is running away.
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我不’没有我想要去的那张最终照片。我所知道的是,我希望通过财务独立性来确保我能够解决这个问题。我从想要像您一样的整个宅基地经历到想要留在城市中,都变得轻而易举。一世’我还很年轻,所以我想’s fairly natural. It’s like I’我已经将倒数第二个目的地(提前退休)留在了Sat-Nav,然后我只需要弄清楚最终的位置。
是鸡肉还是鸡蛋?您是想先在财务上独立,然后确定家园最适合该生活方式,还是您想要先在宅基地上并确定财务上独立是实现此目的的最佳方法?
家园!这一定是节俭树林中的一员!无论如何,我’我很荣幸与他们混在一起’re fantastic!
它是!上一次,我尝试一次阅读两个博客。我答应你’下次我会全神贯注-
小时候,我想当消防车。是的’s right a fire truck not a fireman! Still, an eerie prediction of my adult 梦 of reaching FIRE perhaps?! Hmmmm?! 🙂
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I definitely still 梦想 but they have moved from things like being a superhero/professional baseball player to more realistic items like whitewater rafting in Colorado, visiting different countries, or even just working less and living more.
Great post! Always a 大 reminder to not stop 梦想ing!
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我想你的“dreams” morph into “goals” as you get older. You begin to realize that you need to take active steps to make your 梦 come true. It becomes more of a concrete idea that is up ahead of you instead of an abstract “dream”. I think that’孩子和成人之间的区别–但不确定何时进行转换。我敢打赌,一个人越早意识到他们的“dreams”完全掌握在他们手中,他们越早将其分类“dreams” as “goals”,那么他们更有可能达到“dreams” . . . but, that’只是一种意见,并非基于事实。不过,这将是一个有趣的研究!
还有,芝加哥豆的道具!
-DP
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我从不发表评论,但我不得不发表此文章,一看到标题便想到了它。
丹尼斯:我在– this is crazy! – I’我再次有感情。一世’我喜欢某种十四岁的孩子或类似的东西!我的意思是,你还记得感受吧?
苹果电脑:…是的我一生中的每一天都有自己的感受。
丹尼斯:你呢?
苹果电脑:Are you saying you don’t have feelings?
(从中’费城的Always Sunny。)
//www.youtube.com/watch?v=NUzBK5O3wBM
我认为它’s important to 梦想, even after you’我已经到了火。正如他们所说“it costs nothing to 梦想 but everything not to.”
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It’s easy to get caught up in your life and stop 梦想ing. 我认为它’s 好 for the soul. I look at my two boys (age 2 and 4) and they look at the world with such 难以置信 imagination. 我的 梦 these days are a bit more realistic, but I strive to 梦想 about the 大 things the future holds. It keeps me motivated!
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When I was very young, I 梦想t of being a policeman. Later, in high school, I think, I got it in my head that I was just going to move to the Bay Area, be a waiter, adopt a kid, and raise him 上 my own in a little apartment, like some weird eighties sitcom. I think the ship’既然我有了妻子,我就选择了后者,但我仍然认为在打FI之后尝试完全不同的职业可能很整洁。
也许吧’巡逻节奏还不算太晚…
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不幸的是,我想我’ve lost the ability to 梦想 about unrealistic things. Kids are awesome at this: “我们可以去月球吗?” is a 好 上 e.
但是您说对了,这也许是我们需要练习的东西。也许可以添加到我的早晨例行程序中以了解其运行情况-
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To me, 梦想ing is a sign of ambition. We should not stop 梦想ing because we’在成年人中,如果我们真的想==
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